tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post1835073725466765274..comments2023-08-14T17:57:43.869+09:00Comments on I m o e t: I hit Iki!!!imoethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10404109049700157722noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-22256455960640056952007-12-11T21:10:00.000+09:002007-12-11T21:10:00.000+09:00I admire you and your consistency of not hit/spank...I admire you and your consistency of not hit/spank your child. I have to admit I've lost my temper so many times and I've smacked my daughter more than just two-three times. I'm not proud of myself that I've smacked my daughter, but there are times that I've just lost it.<BR/><BR/>I felt bad, and I still do. But to my consolation I always remember this person in her book saying "As long as the child living in a loving environment, it's okay to lose it sometimes - just don't make smacking as your standard of raising your child. A child always knows if he/she is being loved". (Well, okay. Not exactly like that, but more or less)<BR/><BR/>Smacking doesn't make you a bad mother, Shirley, get that idea out of your head especially that you've done it ONCE in the whole 23 months of Iki's life. <BR/><BR/>It is hard sometimes to set up boundaries, we have to be careful that that the child doesn't turn into a spoiled brat but in a way we don't want to drive him/her away from us... *sigh*LadyNoorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512933008814001310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-59696774559769124972007-12-10T11:19:00.000+09:002007-12-10T11:19:00.000+09:00I can relate. I also regretted (even until now) wh...I can relate. I also regretted (even until now) when I first yelled at Michelle and left her crying alone just for the sake of not spoiling her to do whatever she wants. It's always a dilemma and it's not easy to raise a child. *hug* Tabah, ya.Carla Chanliauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12006345210890393276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-85601724924213633702007-12-09T21:03:00.000+09:002007-12-09T21:03:00.000+09:00Duhhhh.. *big huuuggg*Sometimes we lose our contro...Duhhhh.. *big huuuggg*<BR/><BR/>Sometimes we lose our control, it's normal and it's human.<BR/>We learn from that experience.<BR/>So don't worry too much yaaa.<BR/><BR/>Waaaa a weekend getaway ke Indonesia???<BR/>DON'T YOU DARE doing it before I land my feet on Surabaya!!!!<BR/><BR/>Ayo ayo ayo, taktemenin, tapi tunggu abis natalannnn, biar ada aku disana,taktemenin berburu kuliner, hehehehe. <BR/>Wah kamu lak keburu pindahan ya?The Divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14679430870146301691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-33572574003924441912007-12-09T05:12:00.000+09:002007-12-09T05:12:00.000+09:00waaa iki benar2 mngerti mamaa :(( *terharu*mut, ka...waaa iki benar2 mngerti mamaa :(( *terharu*<BR/><BR/>mut, kapan mo dikirim titipannya? aku dah gak sabar pingin belanja bareng dia nii, hihihhhiiii.. btw, yg sabar ya mamachaan :)Prehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10195265527712989810noreply@blogger.com