tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post3814488186821679579..comments2023-08-14T17:57:43.869+09:00Comments on I m o e t: Perfectionistimoethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10404109049700157722noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-52074138711831469392009-10-10T09:04:58.715+09:002009-10-10T09:04:58.715+09:00I was perusing "perfectionist husband" a...I was perusing "perfectionist husband" and stumbled across your blog... I feel your pain and hopefully since this post it has improved...just wanted to let you know you aren't alone.<br /><br />http://www.booshy.wordpress.comjessicaboldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09078112288742047510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-37655280328121165832009-08-24T10:01:58.877+09:002009-08-24T10:01:58.877+09:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-84687777778852790002009-08-08T22:36:03.572+09:002009-08-08T22:36:03.572+09:00i dont mean to be rude here, im sure he is a lovel...i dont mean to be rude here, im sure he is a lovely guy, and that is why you married him, but next time if he ever complains about your cook, ask him, have you ever complained about his salary? im sure you never did, since you know he has done his best. so, im sure he knows you have done your best as well :) as much as it will hurt him if you complain about his salary, it does hurt you too if he complains about your cook. i hope u understand what im trying to say.<br /><br />and imoet, i just understood what u told me when we first knew each other, being a housewife, is the most difficult job i ever done. its about raising a human being, what a responsibility!!!! i hope one day my boy can say the same as yours, that i am his best mama :)vinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125341152633507490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-90576931884946860522009-08-03T15:36:27.536+09:002009-08-03T15:36:27.536+09:00Aku juga dulu gak bisa masak, Moet. Di Indonesia m...Aku juga dulu gak bisa masak, Moet. Di Indonesia mana pernah aku masak sendiri. Di Jepang aku biasa pakai sesuatu yang instant, dan masakan favoritku kare (tahu khan kare jepang yang pakai kare-ko instant - nyengir).<br /><br />Kalau bikin masakan jepang seperti nimono ato nikujaga, aku suka pakai dashi-soyu (dashi yang udah komplit ada soyu sakenya), jadi kita gak bingung lagi sama takaran bumbunya. Dan biasanya rasanya udah pas dengan lidah jepang. Eh, tapi papanya Iki gak suka dengan yang instant ya??Mbak'ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09104867264470663713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-7548423607475202182009-08-03T01:46:28.738+09:002009-08-03T01:46:28.738+09:00why did you have to say sorry for an imperfect mea...why did you have to say sorry for an imperfect meal? i mean it takes sometime for someone to learn to cook their own national food, leave alone a foreign one. because you need to know what a "good" meal tastes like so you can figure out what's missing in your meal. i've never cooked japanese food but it obviously has so many "foreign" ingredients that you need to get accustomed to. i mean hiro should realise that. why don't you talk about it openly one relaxed day?<br /><br />anyway, dunno what's better with mine. vincent always says he likes my cooking that i've come to a point now wondering if i do cook well or he just compliments it because that's what i wanna hear. :PCarla Chanliauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12006345210890393276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-71134400794004299872009-07-31T21:02:00.569+09:002009-07-31T21:02:00.569+09:00I think you should have a chat with him about this...I think you should have a chat with him about this. Sheila is right, you're not a Japanese woman who was probably being prepared all her life to be able to cook perfect 3 course Japanese dishes in 40 minutes. I don't think it's healthy that you have to keep saying sorry like that, night after night. Gently remind him that you do try your best and if it's still not up to his cooking standard that he has to down his level of perfectionism to meet with yours... Maybe a little talk will make him realise that his criticism is a bit too much for you to bear lately... Good luck dear :)LadyNoorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512933008814001310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712752.post-39866080755181355862009-07-29T03:49:10.039+09:002009-07-29T03:49:10.039+09:00did you sometimes ask that you also need some litt...did you sometimes ask that you also need some little compliments here and there? I mean, you're not a Japanese wife... and you do have plus points elsewhere...<br /><br />I@m sorry I can't help a lot. Especially because I don't cook either so I don't know why people have to be fussy and perfectionist when it comes to cooking....The Divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14679430870146301691noreply@blogger.com